If you’re turned off by the “submissive” word in the title, trust me, I GET IT. Keep reading. (Disclaimer: I’m not a perfect wife and quite often a very crummy one. I’m also not a marriage counselor or expert on submissive marriage. I’m simply sharing what’s worked for me.) For example, for years, it’s been my responsibility to manage our rental properties. Now with 3 young children to bathe, feed, change and teach, it is a huge drain to my emotional energy to manage tenants and maintenance of our properties. Rather than trying to do it all myself, I asked my husband to take over. He agreed happily. Since then, he’s been doing an excellent job, and I have the relief of knowing that he will make the best decisions for our family. I don’t need to ask him to give me the rundown of what he’s doing for the properties. All I do is ask, “Is there anything I can do to help you?” The pressure is now off me, and I don’t have to worry about it. And even if something goes wrong, I don’t have the pressure of knowing that the responsibility falls solely on my shoulders. It’s his responsibility. My first actual training occurred when we reached my home our first day together. Sir sat on my couch, and took one of the pillows, placing it at His feet, He instructed me to kneel and remove His shoes. He informed me at that time that His women do not kneel on the floor, only on pillows, and so I learned my first lesson. Now, unless we are in a rush, I kneel at His feet and put on and remove His shoes. Women know other women. And women tend to know which type of men they prefer. By having a roster of female friends and acquaintances, you gain an advantage on finding a submissive woman.

Physical differences in men and women are often obvious, so women will look for men that display greater physicality and competence in their overall approach to life. Part of dominance isn’t just being an assertive and disagreeable person. Instead, you’re a protector and a provider. In exchange for your protection and provisioning, she feels safe and taken care of, which alleviates typical anxieties that women are inundated with.As long as you keep and open mind and don't rely 100% on apps to meet women you will put yourself in the best spot to get the results you're looking for. Look in the quiet places Initiating sex can be as simple as caressing her, asking her if she’s in the mood, or just taking her right then and there. And it all came from me learning to take his direction, and not fighting to direct him and tell him what to do. Physically greet my husband at the door when he gets home from work, with a smile and a kiss. Or at least a great attitude.

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Dakota Johnson Details ‘Psychotic’ Experience Making ‘Fifty Shades’: I Signed Up for a ‘Very Different’ Movie Sir:Use of the word Sir was discussed online before we had even initially met. He indicated I could call Him whatever I wished, but desired Sir for intimate moments. As we grew closer, it applied whenever He was asserting His dominance, be it out in public, online or on the phone and I show my acceptance and submission with the honorific response.This happened recently when we were leaving on vacation. We were going to be staying in a beach house, which meant we had to bring almost everything with us, from shampoo to charcoal to paper plates to food. Before we left, rather than calling the shots, I asked my husband what he wanted me to do. He said he wanted me to handle the interior, and he’d take care of putting the boat on the trailer and getting the outside stuff together. I am just now beginning to learn how to undress for Sir. I feel a bit silly, but the lingerie I wear for Him helps. So far He has only specified me to remove my panties while facing away from Him, slightly bent over. Beyond that, He has only asked that I please Him with my removal of my clothes, and I try to be creative and pleasing in the process. This isn’t to say she’s a weak pushover or that she wants a man who dominates her in every aspect of her life. Instead, it means she’s choosing to put her trust in the man in her life. She’s there to support and resolve conflicts as opposed to leading and being in control all the time. For example, one night we were grilling dinner, and as is usually the case, it was my job to prepare the sides in the kitchen, and my husband was going to grill the meat outside. We’d decided we wanted to eat at 5:30pm, so around 5pm, I started prepping the sweet potatoes and corn to bake inside, but I noticed my husband wasn’t starting the grill.