One last thing: it's metal. If someone is throwing their legs around in the throes of passion, these bars could deliver a decent bonk on the head to their partner. As much as pain can be fun, ending the night with a broken nose isn't on everyone's wishlist. The internal attachments can also take advantage of the Cowgirls rotation functions and the different stems included. Some stems are firmer and others have more give for a different feel depending on your preference. To make it extra spicy, there’s a slot in the center of the seat where you can put an insertable toy and then sit your sub right down on it and hold them there with the restraints. The chair comes with a toy to start with that fits the slot but be warned that it’s quite realistic if that’s not your general toy preference.

For more substantial pieces you'll need a dedicated spot or be willing to stash them in a closet or other storage area. From there, try kissing your partner on the lips, then slowly moving down, stopping to nibble and tease the nipples. Careful with those cuffs. Never apply cuffs so tight they are uncomfortable or yank on the bar so hard or violently you could potentially sprain or injure someone's muscles. It’s plenty sturdy with real wood boards that are covered with high-density foam to protect hands and knees. The faux-leather cover is easy to clean which is essential. It’s made up of two padded platforms that can be used in whatever way your imagination can dream up. Designed for paddling, the top platform is height adjustable so the sub can kneel comfortably–or not, depending on your preference. It adjusts by angling one side up, so the higher the position, the more extreme of a bend the person strapped in will have, which sounds like a good time to me.You’re really only limited here by your imagination. Plus the chair is easy to assemble and then take apart again for storage. It’s built to hold up to 300 pounds.

The whole bondage community is giving you the side-eye here, Jamie. Why Are There So Many Construction-Type Results in My Google Search?Adding to the bars, the kit includes a host of matching tools like a breathable ball gag (the ball had holes for comfort), a studded soft flogger, a blindfold, and a collar with a leash.

Go with something made for bondage like this Leather Bond Padded Cuff Set or for something softer, this VP Leather Cuff Set with faux Chinchilla fur. This set also appears to come with an under-mattress bondage system, the type that hides underneath your mattress when not in use and then you can pull out the four cuffs from the four corners for some fast, low-effort bondage. That’s a great deal for the price as you can pay this much for that piece alone.

One thing to consider is its size. It’s has a roughly two feet by three feet footprint and this is not the type of thing that folds flat when not in use. You have to have space to dedicate to it, but if you’re building a home dungeon, it certainly has an intimidating look to it. Below, we dive into different categories of sex furniture, including everything from pillows to sex chairs and versatile massage benches. You'll also find all-inclusive sex machines and absorbent sex blankets. “It’s only sex—don’t take it too seriously,” she says. “There’s so much pleasure out there to be had. Don’t feel intimidated, don’t be ashamed about it. Talk about it with your partner, and most of all, enjoy.” Now gather your blindfold, favorite vibrator, and flogger, because we’re going shopping—and it might get a little kinky.

The big one. The world’s largest fetish and fantasy club, started in 1990, a visit to Torture Garden (affectionately referred to as TG) is considered a rite of passage for those wishing to explore and expand their sexual horizons. Ellie, who's 41, is here for the first time. She tells me later, "I enjoyed being tied up — I liked the sense of touch, and squeezing, and the rope brushing past my skin." She also enjoyed tying her partner, another woman she met that night. She explains, "I want to learn the skills and technique, so I can tie other people, so they can experience it as well." Paul also identifies as a switch. He tells me he liked being tied because, "I like being touched gently," and he enjoyed the tying because, "I like the artistic side of the knots." Photo: Bones and Rope A spreader bar is a bondage device consisting of a rigid bar with cuffs or attachment points at each end. Its purpose in BDSM play is to restrict the movement of a person’s limbs, usually the wrists or ankles, by securing them to the ends of the bar. This creates a spread or exposed position, enhancing restraint and control during BDSM activities such as sex restraints. 2. Are spreader bars safe to use, and what precautions should be taken during use? The thrusting is controlled with a wireless remote and there are three speeds to play with. It comes with three different size realistic attachments, with battery-powered vibration. They’re surprisingly simple to switch for each other. The thrusting’s powered by eight C batteries, not included, and the battery for the remote is included. But the attire isn't all leather and latex. In fact, if you wandered in before anyone was bound, you might mistake the Rope Jam for a yoga class, such is the predilection for Lululemon leggings and loose printed cotton trousers getting an airing between Goa and Glasto. I'd probably put money on at least one of the guys running a pop-up Beard Bar in Nunhead, selling artisan moustache wax made of oils secreted from his girlfriend's scalp during a head massage from monks in Tibet. Photo: Bones and RopeDoggy, In doggy position, the receiver will keep their leg in their body which will make their ankles near their butt. With a spreading bar, you can keep your partner easily restrained in one position. Appearance. Some bars are simple and utilitarian while others are more ornate or even padded. What Are Some General Safety Rules to Follow? There are six tie-down points total: two on the top, two on the upper platform, and two on the base. Funny story, the same term used for this adult toy is also used for a certain type of rigging used in overhead lifting. They're not the same at all, but share the name.